I’ve been having dreams about her lately and it’s just like ugh, getting through some things. It’s good to laugh it off sometimes.
Telling my mom about my problems:
Telling my mom about gay representation and rights:
Telling my mom about my depression and feelings of worthlessness:
Telling my mom about basically anything ever:
"My brother was killed when I was 13. There had been a fight at a nightclub, and my brother was not involved, but he was shot in the head as he tried to run away. He was very popular in my town, so there were many reporters and friends outside the hospital when I got there. When I walked in my mother was sitting in a chair, crying. She wouldn’t even look at me. She wouldn’t speak to me. Not only did I lose my brother that day, but I lost my mother too. Life from then on was about her suffering. She stayed home all day, she cried, she didn’t pay much attention to us. Nothing was allowed to be more important than her suffering. Nobody else was allowed to have important problems. Her pain had to be worse than everyone else’s. She preferred it that way."
Alexandra Stoddard (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
Relationship level 1: awkward flirting
Relationship level 2: getting naked
Relationship level 3: “what type of bender would i be in avatar”
i resized the damn things wrong so when you click it bigger there is a white strip on top… damn….
I’m looking for blogs with a pastel grunge kind of feel for my loch ness monster babe blog, but none of the upside down crosses bullshit you feel? Who am I supposed to follow? Any suggestions?
stretch marks are caused by weight gain and if you have a lot that means you've gained weight so yeah if you have stretch marks your overweight. theyre gross
okay, listen here, pisswad.
first of all, i am pretty goddamn skinny and i’ve still got stretchmarks on my thighs. while stretchmarks can be because of weight gain, they can also be because of a multitude of other things. in my case, i go through a growth spurt every couple months. and anyway, if ur stretchmarks are because u’ve gained weight, no one gives five and a half shits. weight gain is normal and okay~
and second of all, who. fucking. cares. do u really see a girl with stretchmarks and instantly brand her as “fat” or “gross”? and even if she is considered fat or overweight, why does that even matter? chubby girls are cute. fat girls are cute. skinny girls are cute. all girls are cute and all girls (and boys and other individuals who identify as something else) deserve to feel cute and love their bodies. and they cant do that with ur judgmental ass walking around.
third of all, i’ve seen a lot of people calling stretchmarks “tiger stripes” or “sick ass lightening tattoos” and i agree. are u calling my sick ass lightening tattoos gross?
didnt think so
love (but not really),
ps: again, everyone is cute. except u. ur not cute, u body-shaming ball of bat shit.
My stretch marks are a personal testament of my healthy weight gain after leaving my abusive family home. I was dangerously underweight for a lot of my life and living off of bullshit food (ie, zero vegetables and nothing but breads and pastas) for almost all of my first 17 years. By the time my depression rose to a point that my best friends’ family took me in, I looked like a weak bag of bones.
After leaving, I began eating healthier (actual fruits and veggies and balanced meals? omg), and started gaining healthy weight. And yeah, my skin needed to stretch to accomodate my new, healthy, 18 year old body.
I have stretch marks on my sides, my thighs, my boobs. I even have some awkward ones on my knees for whatever reason. And they are so important to me. They represent my transition into a happier, healthier person. They represent the courage it took me to stand up to my mom’s abuse and make a decision for my self to change my life. They’re like my butterfly wings, little lines on my hips whispering to me that I did it, and I’m better.
Don’t hate on stretch marks. You don’t know what they mean.
fat pigeons make me so irrationally angry. how do they fly. why are they fat. can they even read
B1A4 ‘Solo Day’ comeback nails! I’m really happy with the clouds ^^ I should have looked at their UFO before randomly winging my own though :P
Getting to Know the Muppet Performers…
DAVE GOELZ (born July 16, 1946); Gonzo, Dr. Bunsen Honeydew, Zoot, Boober Fraggle, Uncle Traveling Matt, Beauregard, Philo, Waldorf, Large Marvin Fraggle, Wendell Porcupine, Fizzgig, Sir Didymus
"I got interested in the Muppets from a very holistic standpoint. I was fascinated with the consistency of character as it was expressed in the words they said—the physical movements, what they wore… everything… That still fascinates me. It’s so cohesive, and it’s all about character."
Happy 68th!! My favourite guy in the world ♥
Nadezda Fava | Bloom
Because it’s a dream come true to be followed by some likeminded peeps. What you’re motivated for - happiness, fitness, self-help - I don’t mind, as long as we can all be motivational together! Small chirps ftw~
*walks up to a group of middle schoolers skateboarding*
lemme show you a trick or two
*hand me a board*
this one's called stealing
*runs away with it*